In any of the roleplays where the characters have no “set love interest/crush”, and in which I play a strong, independent female archetype (either she’s just got an attitude or she’s physically capable, and variations thereof), all of the other female characters have a love interest pursuing them but mine.
It’s really disheartening as a rather outspoken feminist that, at least at the time (this was a few years ago, admittedly), a female who isn’t demure and sweet and kawaii is unappealing.
And of course, any time I did play a meek or demure female character, there’s at least one male love interest.
I think the fact that most of the RPers playing the males are also female. Internal sexism sucks.